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Being Human: A User’s Guide blends real-life experience with practical psychology to explain why we react the way we do—and how to stop letting old patterns run the show. No hype, no quick fixes. Just clear, grounded tools for people who are ready to understand themselves and do something different.

About the Author

David Ellis

David Ellis is a psychologist with decades of experience working with people at their most difficult moments—crisis, recovery, conflict, and change. His work is shaped not only by formal training but by a life lived across multiple disciplines, setbacks, and reinventions.
Rather than offering theory for theory’s sake, David focuses on what actually helps people understand themselves and function better in real life. His writing is direct, thoughtful, and grounded in experience, blending clinical insight with honesty, humor, and practicality.

Being Human: A User’s Guide reflects his belief that growth doesn’t come from perfection, positivity, or avoidance—but from understanding our emotional systems and learning how to work with them instead of against them.

David Ellis is a licensed therapist, educator, and author with over 40 years of experience in mental health and addiction recovery. His previous work, The Power of Effectiveness Therapy, was featured on the Huffington Post Recommended Reading List.

Key Takeaways

Emotional Regulation & Self-Awareness

Learn how emotions actually work—and how to respond instead of react when things get intense.

Overcoming Trauma & Dysfunctional Patterns

Recognize how past experiences and family dynamics shape present behavior, and how to interrupt those loops.

Practical, Step-by-Step Tools for Growth

Clear, usable methods you can apply in real situations, not abstract theories.

Healthy Relationships & Attachment

Understand why connection can feel difficult, and what a healthier attachment looks like in everyday life.

Experience Meets Psychology

A grounded blend of personal stories, clinical insight, and psychological science.

Practice, Patience & Self-Compassion

Change is a process—this book emphasizes consistency, self-kindness, and realistic progress.

About the Book

The Power of Effectiveness Therapy

THE POWER OF EFFECTIVENESS THERAPY is a mind-churning, well-written overview of the many schools of psychological thought. Each chapter is logically set up in a way that conveys a types of therapy with excellent citation and incredibly in-depth research. Even more intriguing is the personal background of author, David Ellis, who, in his introduction, has the gumption to reveal his demons through personal anecdotes – one such personal issue being his addiction to alcohol.

Ellis’ willingness to come right out and disclose his life is both commendable and brave; and most important, he makes the reader comfortable with the subject matter. In a time whereby mental illness is one of the most pressing worldly causes, books like these seek to provide a moral and ethical framework to be absorbed and subsequently practiced.

About the Book

Being Human

A USER'S GUIDE

Being human often means reacting before thinking, repeating patterns we don’t fully understand, and feeling stuck despite our best intentions. This book is written for people who recognize those moments and want something more useful than advice or motivation.

Drawing from decades of clinical experience and a deeply personal journey, David Ellis explains how emotions, trauma, and early experiences quietly shape behavior. Instead of asking readers to ignore or suppress what they feel, Being Human: A User’s Guide focuses on learning how to regulate emotional intensity so clearer choices become possible.

This isn’t a promise of instant change. It’s a practical, compassionate guide for understanding yourself, interrupting destructive loops, and building a steadier way forward—one step at a time.

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Chapter 1

Harry spies on his neighbor, then meets Mary after she moves in

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Chapter 2

Harry is smitten with Mary and excited she's transferring to his college

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Chapter 3

Harry works at a cafeteria in Binghamton and learns about the city

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Harry Katz's novel invites you to explore the complexities of life in 1970s Binghamton.
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